Why Good Intentions Still Lead to Misunderstandings After 20 years as a couples counselor, I’ve watched countless partners who love each other deeply still end up on opposite sides of an argument thinking, “How did we get here?” You meant to share a concern; your...
Why Conflict Isn’t the Enemy Every couple argues—it’s how you handle it that matters. After more than 20 years helping partners navigate tough conversations, I’ve seen the same truth over and over: conflict, when handled with care and intention, can become a powerful gateway to...
Why Communication Is the Core of Connection When couples ask what makes a marriage thrive, my answer after 20 years in couples counseling is simple: Communication. Healthy communication is the bridge between how you feel and how your partner understands you. It’s how emotional intimacy...
Why In-Laws Matter in Relationships If you and your partner live in Cleveland, Ohio; Columbus, Ohio; Charlotte, North Carolina; or Detroit, Michigan, you already know how much family culture shapes daily life. In-Laws can be a source of incredible support—free childcare, Sunday dinners, wisdom from...
Why Couples Struggle to Talk About Sex As a couples counselor of 20 years, I’ve seen countless partners who love each other deeply but feel distant in the bedroom. It’s far more common than you may think. Emotional disconnection, stress, shame, or fear of rejection...
Why Technology and Relationships Matter in Relationships As a couples counselor with 20 years of experience, I’ve watched smartphones, social media, and streaming services transform how partners connect—and how they disconnect. Whether you’re in Cleveland, Ohio; Columbus, Ohio; Charlotte, North Carolina; or Detroit, Michigan, the...