Why Money Conversations Matter Money is one of the most common stressors in relationships—and it makes sense. Finances touch every part of daily life: housing, food, childcare, retirement, even date nights. When partners avoid or argue about money, the stress can quickly seep into communication,...
Why Sexual Issues in Relationships Matter As a couples counselor of 20 years, I’ve seen how sexual issues in relationships can quietly erode trust, closeness, and self-esteem—or become opportunities to build deeper connection. When sex is going well, partners often feel more secure, playful, and...
Introduction: Why Attachment Style Matters in Relationships As a couples counselor with 20 years of experience, I’ve seen one pattern shape relationships more than almost any other: Attachment Style. Whether you’re dating, married, or rebuilding trust after a tough season, your attachment patterns—formed in early...
Why Passion Fades—and How You Can Get It Back Long-term love evolves. It’s normal for desire to ebb and flow as careers grow, kids arrive, bodies change, and routines settle in. If you and your partner feel stuck, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken. Stress,...
Why In-Law Conversations Can Be So Tricky For more than 20 years as a couples counselor, I’ve seen how quickly a loving conversation can turn tense when the topic is in-laws. You’re not just talking about logistics or opinions—you’re talking about family loyalty, identity, history,...
When Infidelity Shakes the Foundation of Love It’s normal to wonder whether your relationship can survive. Some couples grow stronger after infidelity, while others drift apart. The difference isn’t luck—it’s having a structured path to rebuild emotional safety, clear communication, and shared accountability. As a...