Emotional distance rarely shows up all at once—it builds in the quiet spaces: the missed eye contact, the unsaid feelings, the “we’ll talk later” that never happens. The hopeful truth is this: the same relationship that drifted can also return. With steady, practical steps, couples...
Teens Need Safety, Not Pressure As a trauma‑informed therapist with over 20 years of experience, I have learned one essential truth: healing happens best when teens feel safe, respected, and in control of their pace. So many well‑meaning adults want young people to “just talk...
After an argument, most couples don’t need a perfect apology—they need to feel understood. Empathy is what turns tension into tenderness, defensiveness into safety, and distance into reunion. When you learn to listen for the feeling beneath the words, reconnection stops being a guessing game...
Anxiety Often Isn’t Random—It’s Memory Anxiety can feel confusing, frustrating, and sometimes frightening—especially when it shows up years after an event you believed you had “moved on” from. As a trauma‑informed therapist with over 20 years of experience, I often tell clients this gentle truth:...
Many trauma survivors carry a heavy burden that was never theirs to hold: self-blame. After decades of sitting with clients as a trauma-informed therapist, I’ve seen how shame and guilt quietly shape people’s lives long after the traumatic event is over. Survivors often say, “I...
After a hard argument, most couples aren’t asking for perfection—they’re asking for closeness. Emotional safety is what turns “We fought” into “We found our way back.” It’s the invisible bridge that helps you soften, repair, and remember you’re on the same team, even when emotions...